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Healing one day at a time
June 3, 2012
When your marriage experiences difficulties, it is most often not one big problem. It is usually a series of events that has occurred over a long period of time. Some of the hurts can be longstanding patterns of your relationship that have begun to seem "normal". This can give a couple the feeling that things can never change. You may be asking "Do I even want to fight for this anymore?"

Change can happen much faster than you think. It is never easy, because both partners need to be willing to understand how they are living in unhelpful patterns. The payoff for challenging these unhelpful patterns can be incredible, because you can rediscover why you love the person sleeping with you. You will learn to appreciate all that they do bring to the relationship. The reason for a growing love may be very different than it was the first time you fell in love, but it will be genuine love.

The first task, is to change one day at a time. To live mindful of your "old ways", and to not fall to familiar traps. You can learn new skills in how to relate, and to grow in your love and intimacy with each other. It is never too late, and it is worth the effort! Let today be the start of a new day.


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